Hi lovlies! Yep, it’s that time of year when frazzled brides start to wonder what their dutiful bridesmaids have in store for them for their last hoorah as a sexy single lady. The idea of a bachelorette party can conjour up some pretty tacky images; I won’t get in to those details but rather share some pretty ones with you that are sure to make any bachelorette fete a fab one for the bride and all of her besties.
Create a theme
I find when planning a party it’s always easiest to start with a theme. It’s a great jumping off point when selecting; the venue, food and drink, activities, décor and favours. Make sure your chosen motif is something that the bride will connect with, pick something that’s personal to her, maybe a hobby, a favourite travel destination or even a certain era she enjoys.
|Vineyard vacation; my girlfriend's bachelorette in Niagara-on-the-Lake|
Location, location, location
A beautiful location is the best way to start the day/evening off right. Make an effort to select a unique venue that is both welcoming and impressive. It doesn’t have to cost a fortune to get something unique, there are plenty of free venue options including; local botanical gardens, parks, private dining nooks inside restaurants, the party room in a friend’s condo building, or a secluded beach. The options are truly endless, get creative.
|Ravine Vineyard, Niagara-on-the-Lake|
Personalize the details
You can never have too many details! Adding layers of personal touches will only enhance the experience for all. Use the bride's favourite flower or colour to decorate, dream up games that center around her, give favours or prizes that relate to your theme or are items the bride swears by, customize everything; the invites, menu, place settings, name tags, and activities.
|Glazed salmon on risotto, our bride's fave foods|
Pamper the bride
The number one rule when planning a bachelorette party; make the bride feel special. If you’re keeping the details of the day a surprise, make sure to inform her of what to wear and what to bring – there’s nothing worse than a bride that feels underdressed or ill prepared. Identify her as the bride (in a pretty way of course), carry her bags, give her the best seat in the house, make a lovely toast to her, ensure she’s not privy to any glitches that may come up, and give her a memento to remind her of this special occasion.
I know, this all sounds wonderful in theory, but pulling together a bachelorette party can be a challenge. Just remember, ultimately it’s about celebrating the bride-to-be and friendship; don’t let the special meaning of this day get lost in the details.